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What is The Obsession Method?

The Obsession Method is a brand new ClickBank dating/relationship offer for men.

Target Audience: Men who want a girlfriend / Men who want marriage / Men who want to attract multiple women / Men who want to keep women interested in them.

Sales Pitch / Angle: "Use these three secret ‘Body Language Cues’ to make beautiful women sexually addicted to you for as long as you want."

Front-end product: $69.95
Order bump: $9.95
Upsell #1: $97.00 e-book and video bundle
Upsell #2: $49.95 e-book and video bundle
Upsell #3: $19.95 e-book and video bundle

Product Inclusions: 50,000 word professionally-designed e-book; 28-part live-person video series; bundle of 6 high-quality bonus PDF's (30-40+ pages each). Audio course ($9.95 order bump) includes an additional 10-part audio course.

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Why Should You Promote It?

  • Innovative, engaging VSL with a combination of live-person and animated sections
  • Proven sales copy featuring a fresh, PG-rated sales angle
  • Entire funnel has been designed specifically for mobile users
  • Website and product are gorgeous and professional, boosting perceived value and customer experience
  • Over $1.27 EPC average (across all traffic sources) during our initial tests
  • Funnel includes an order bump (take rate of ~50%) and a 3-tier upsell flow (take rate of ~40%)
  • Affiliates earn 75% commissions on the entire funnel, including multiple back-end upsells/downsells
  • Extremely high quality product that delivers genuinely useful content (which means satisfied customers and low refund rates)
  • Author Name:  Kate Spring
  • Product Cost:  $69.95
  • Order Bumps: 1 (50% take rate)
  • Upsells: 3 (combined ~40% take rate)
  • Front-End Commissions:  75%
  • Back-End Commissions:  75%
  • Avg Sale Value: $69.10
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LoveLearnings is a ClickBank Platinum vendor and publisher of multiple best-selling relationship offers (including "Text Chemistry" and "The Ex Factor Guide"). All of our products are currently among the top-50 offers on ClickBank, and have generated over $18 million in sales revenue.

Derek Lau (co-owner)
[email protected]
Skype: "dirkph"

Mark Borland (co-owner)
[email protected]
Skype: "borlandmark"

Hoplinks & Email Swipes

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Email Swipe Recommendations:

  1. Use the HTML versions of each email whenever possible, as they contain text formatting and embedded that have proven to increase clicks and conversions.
  2. Send your list at least 2 of the provided email swipes:
    • Start by sending Swipe #1
    • Follow-up 48 hours later with Swipe #3 or Swipe #4
  3. We strongly recommend using one of the video thumbnail images provided on this page (the HTML versions of each swipe already include this image).
  4. We suggest mailing to the primary VSL landing page, but you could consider using the alternate sales letter page in follow-ups (or if your list has been exposed to numerous VSL's recently).

Email Swipe #1

Body language to turn her on

Suggested Subject Lines:

Turn Her On Without Saying A Word

[Instructional Video] Turn Her On Without Saying A Word

3 Techniques for Making Her Want You

For hundreds of thousands of years…

Men had to seduce women without saying a single word.

Before spoken language even existed…

The only tool men had to turn a woman on…

And convince her to sleep with them…

Was what he could communicate with his body language.

Learn the body language to turn women on here:

==> https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

You see, because seduction and attraction was all done WITHOUT WORDS for most of our evolutionary history…

The sexual part of a woman’s brain is much more responsive to the signals your body is giving off than it is to anything you say.

That’s why it’s absolutely essential that you know how to turn a woman on regardless of what you say.

This instructional video shows you how:

==> https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

In it, my friend Kate shares 3 tips for using the “secret language” of your body to get the girls you really want, to start fantasizing about you…


— A technique to make her crave your touch…

— A technique for getting her to think about kissing you…

— And a way to make her dream about you all day long…

It’s powerful…

It’s practical…

And best of all, you can use these techniques right away…

Go here to watch Kate’s video now:

https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy <== WATCH NOW

And be ready to take notes…


Email Swipe #2

What makes a guy hot

Suggested Subject Lines:

What women REALLY mean when they say a guy’s hot

3 practical techniques for “hot guy” body language

How to carry yourself like a man in demand

Here’s something most guys have never considered:

When you say a girl’s “hot” you’re probably talking about the shape of her face and body:

-- Her stunning eyes…
-- Her soft skin and full lips…
-- The curve of her back and her hips…
-- The swell of her chest…

These shapes and curves and contours combine to make you feel turned on and drawn to her…

But when women say a GUY is hot…

They’re not talking about the shape of his body or face.

More often than not…

They’re talking about how he carries himself.

Here’s how to carry yourself like a sexual rockstar:

==> https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

In a recent study, women looked at pictures of men and rated their attractiveness on a scale of 1 to 10.

But the researchers did something sneaky:

Among the hundreds of pictures the women flipped through…

They’d slip in multiple pictures of the same men…

Standing and sitting in different positions…

… And with slightly different facial expressions.

Shockingly, women would rate the same man differently depending on how he held himself

One way of standing would get him ratings of “5” or “6”…

And a seemingly minor adjustment would give the same guy ratings of 9 or 10…

That’s because women are highly tuned into the signals a man’s body language is giving off…

They may not know what it is about him…

They get an “overall impression” of a guy’s attractiveness…

And think of him as either “hot” or “not” based on the signals he’s giving off.

Discover 3 practical techniques for “hot guy” body language here:


You’ll be amazed at how differently women see you…

And how they treat you…

When you know how to give off the right signals.


Email Swipe #3

Pavlov's Dog

Suggested Subject Lines:

How to use “pavlov’s theory” to make a girl hungry for your touch

She won’t be able to stop thinking about your touch…

She’ll beg you to touch her

Make her crave your touch

You might’ve heard of Dr. Pavlov’s famous experiment:

Where he’d ring a bell every time he fed his dogs…

And after a few repetitions…

Just hearing the bell would make the dogs salivate uncontrollably.

The sound of the bell became powerfully linked in the dogs’ brains to the feeling of hunger…

And they couldn’t help drooling

It’s a process called classical Conditioning…

And you can use it to get any woman hungry for your touch…

This instructional video shows you how:

==> https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

When you casually touch a woman in a certain way every time she has positive feelings…

She starts to ASSOCIATE your touch with those “good feelings”…

And very quickly…

She’s thinking about your touch all the time…

She’s imagining how good it’ll make her feel…

And when you’re not around…

She experiences an intense craving to feel your hands on her.

Using “Pavlov’s Theory” is one of 3 cool techniques my friend Kate shares in this instructional video:

Go watch it here: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

It shows you not only how to make her crave your touch…

But also a technique for making her think about kissing you…

And a way to unlock feelings of uncontrollable lust for you…

It’s deadly effective…

Contains techniques you can use right away…

And is based on scientific research out of Harvard.

Check out the practical advice in Kate’s video now:
==> https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy <== watch now

All the best,

Email Swipe #4

Erotic (PG-13)

Suggested Subject Lines:

Uncontrollable lust for you... even if she hates you?

Can a woman want to bang you, even if she hates you?

Why she’ll want bang you even if she can’t stand you

She hates you…but you still make her wet

Make her horny… even if she hates you

By far, the biggest mistake men make when they want to make a woman wet…

Is thinking that LUSTING FOR YOU somehow comes from LIKING you.

But nothing could be further from the truth.

You see, whether or not a girl ‘likes’ you and approves of you…

Has nothing to do with whether or not she wants to wrap her legs around you and draw you deep inside her.

In fact…

Women are more likely to fantasize about getting bent over and ravaged by a guy they don’t particularly “like” in the traditional sense.

Discover how to make her fantasize about getting pounded by you here

==> https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

That’s because LUST and LIKING exist in different areas of her brain…

“Liking” is generated in the rational, logical part of the brain…

And lust is activated in the deeper, more primal, animal part of the brain…

The good news is…

That a woman’s primal, animal brain is much more powerful than her logical, reasonable one…

And guys who know how to activate it…

Have an insane amount of choice with women..

Here’s how to activate the LUST part of her brain

https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy <== Watch now

When you think about it, we men aren’t that different:

I’m sure there’s been a girl you didn’t particularly “like” or connect with…

But you wouldn’t hesitate to slide into bed with her and tear her panties off.

The main difference between men’s and women’s brains…

Is where a man’s primal lust is triggered by a woman’s physical appearance…

A woman’s primal lust is triggered by the signals his body language gives off…

That’s why carrying yourself a certain way will make a woman squirm in her seat…

It’ll make her want to reach down and start touching herself…

And she’ll be picturing your face as she crests over…

Learn how it’s done in this short, instructional video: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

Thank me later...


Email Swipe #5

Get a Girlfriend

Suggested Subject Lines:

The best strategy for making her your girlfriend

Guys who get the girls they want know this…

Want her to be your girlfriend? Don’t make this mistake…

If you want her to be your girlfriend…

It’s tempting to want to show off all your best qualities…

In the hope that she’ll suddenly realize what a great boyfriend you’d make…

And rush into your arms.

But - as you’ve probably seen - this almost never works.

Women don’t choose the guy who makes the most “sense” to be with…

They choose the guy who makes them feel certain powerful emotions.

Specifically, they choose guys who make them feel the powerful and addictive emotion of ATTRACTION

Discover 3 simple techniques for making her feel overwhelming attraction here:


Even if you’re not interested in a one-night stand or a casual fling…

But want to make a girl your loyal, loving girlfriend…

You’re still much better off focusing on getting her turned on and attracted FIRST…

Rather than trying to appeal to her logical, rational mind.

Guys who get the girls they want, have learned this lesson…


They’ve learned that the most powerful way to give her these obsessive, addictive emotions…

Is through your body language.

My friend Kate just released an instructional video…

Where she gives you 3 practical, easy-to-use body language techniques, which:

-- Get a girl to think about kissing you
-- Get her craving your touch… And
-- Give you direct access to the animal part of her brain…

Go here to watch it while it’s still up:

==> https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy <== watch

Go give it a watch!


Email Swipe #6

The Science Angle

Suggested Subject Lines:

Studies show women love BLANK

Harvard study shows women NEED this...

What scientists say all women NEED in a guy

Can SCIENCE help you make women sexually attracted to you?

The answer is yes…

In fact, studies pouring out of universities are talking about a secret language that will force a woman to stare you…

Chase you…

And fantasize about the day she gets to wrap her long, voluptuous legs around you.

Sound like something you’d be into?

Then Watch This “How-To” Video Right Now:


In it, top seduction guru Kate Spring unveils the top 3 “secret language” tips that you can use right now to make hot women obsess over you…

These psychological cues are so powerful and convert that she will have no idea that you are using them on her… and she will be absolutely powerless to resist.

How would you like to have that kind of total control over a woman?

Watch This Instructional Video Right Now: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

It doesn’t matter what you look like or how wealthy you are…

...if you’re short, fat, bald, stupid.

Because these 3 tips are so powerful that they bypass that logical part of her brain… and compel her to think sexual thoughts about you.

I know this might sound too good to be true, but I promise you this has worked for the thousands of men I’ve shown this to.



Email Swipe #7

The Short-And-Sweet Swipe

Suggested Subject Lines:

Enslave her to you (and take full control of her body)

Make her your slave (make her your ‘puppet’)

She’ll let you do whatever you want to her.

There’s this guy I know that has reached “James Bond” level with women…

He’s got a harem of SUPER HOT women in their early 20’s constantly obsessing over him… and texting him to “hang out” if you know what I mean.

The level of absolute hypnotic control he has over these girls is pretty f’d up… and he learned it all by using this secret, psychological ‘language’…

A language that’s been used ever since man could walk. So if you want to learn how to ABSOLUTELY CONTROL women’s bodies the way he does… watch this video:

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And the crazy thing is? The girl that teaches you this technique is insanely cute… don’t trust me? Check her out for yourself and watch that video.

So not only are you learning life- changing advice, but she’s fun to look at too.

It’s a win-win.



Email Swipe #8

The Sexual Puppet Angle

Suggested Subject Lines:

How to CONTROL her like your puppet…

Make her your puppet and dominate her…

Make her your personal sex slave.

Some men are so good with women that they know how to practically CONTROL them.

I mean, don’t you know that guy that has the most uncanny ability to get hot women to obsess over him?

Or have you ever had a female friend that seems to be obsessing over another guy?

It’s almost like these men have a special power to control women’s minds like a puppet…

The thing is, what they’re doing is actually simple science. They’re utilizing a covert “language” that makes women subconsciously want them…

…So much so that they’re willing to do ANYTHING to sleep with him.

Want to learn how to use this language? Learn how to make her your personal puppet here:

==> https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

In it, seduction expert Kate Spring shares the 3 most powerful ways to use this “language” to enslave women…

These 3 tips might be BEST tips you’ll ever hear when it comes to making women obsess over you…

So get to it now…

Watch The Video: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

All the best,



Email Swipe #9

The Get Your Ex Back Swipe

Suggested Subject Lines:

Get her back using THIS?

Your ex girlfriend will come back after you watch this…


You need to understand one big thing about getting your ex girlfriend to come CRAWLING back to you…

And it’s that… the reason WHY the breakup happened is because she lost some fundamental level of attraction for you.

Sure, she probably said that it was something else… but she was lying…

So if you want to get your ex back, you need to rebuild the attraction that you lost.

And it’s easy to do if you use THIS technique:

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^^ Watch this How-To Guide To Get Her Back ^^

In this video, Kate Spring reveals 3 simple techniques that make any women want to drop her panties for you… and wrap her legs around you…

And your ex girlfriend is NO exception.

But be quick about it, because the longer you wait around, the more likely she is to leave you for another man… for good.

Watch This Guide: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=xxxxx&vendor=katespring&tid=yyyyy

All the best,


Viral PDF & PPC Keywords

Viral PDF Report

Love Texts CoverWe've created a high-quality free PDF report titled "The Female Mind Control Handbook" that can be branded with your affiliate hoplinks.  You can use this free PDF in any way you wish in order to promote The Obsession Method.

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Demographics & Audiences

Obsession Method Customer Demographics

Information on Obsession Method customer demographics:

Customer Age

  • 16% of buyers are aged 18-24
  • 25% of buyers are aged 25-34
  • 19% of buyers are aged 35-44
  • 16% of buyers are aged 45-54
  • 15% of buyers are aged 55-64
  • 9% of buyers are aged 65+

Customer Gender

  • The Obsession Method is only for men. Do not target female audiences.

Customer Location

  • Roughly 81% of buyers are from the USA
  • Roughly 5% of buyers are from Canada.
  • Roughly 5% of buyers are from the UK.
  • Roughly 4% of buyers are from Australia.
  • We also recommend targeting: New Zealand, Ireland, Singapore, Hong Kong, The Netherlands, Belgium, Denmark, Norway, Sweden, Finland, Iceland, Germany, Switzerland, Greece, Malta, Israel, United Arab Emirates, and Qatar.
  • Australia has the highest overall conversion rate, slightly ahead of the USA, followed closely by Canada and the UK. We recommend targeting all of the countries listed above.
  • TIP: We recommend you EXCLUDE all countries in Africa (except South Africa), EXCLUDE all countries in South Asia (India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka) and EXCLUDE all countries in Southeast Asia (Philippines, Indonesia, Vietnam, Thailand, Cambodia, Laos, Myanmar). Traffic from those regions has low conversion rates.

Customer Device

  • Mobile and desktop traffic convert roughly the same, while tablet traffic (approx 5% of total visitors) has slightly lower conversion rates.
  • We do not suggest targeting by device because our sales funnel is optimized for all devices.

Customer Lists & Lookalike Audiences

We take the privacy of our customers very seriously, so we are not able to share any personal information or customer email lists.

However, we can share Facebook lookalike audiences directly with your Facebook Ads account, which gives you a highly targeted audience to target your ads, but does not reveal any personally identifiable information.

If you would like us to share recent Obsession Method customer lookalike audiences with you through Facebook, please contact us and provide your Facebook Ad Account ID Number.

Affiliate Pixels

Yes, we can absolutely install your affiliate pixels (from Facebook, Google, Bing, Pinterest, Taboola, etc) on the Obsession Method website / sales funnel.

Whenever possible, we recommend you set up your pixels within your own ClickBank account. Please see this detailed help document for instructions to install your pixels in your ClickBank account.

However, we also have the ability to hard-code your pixel on to our website. Please contact us and provide your ClickBank ID and pixel ID(s) or code snippets and we will set it up for you.

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What Our Partners Say

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"Mark and Derek have one of the best set of relationship offers to date. Their Obsession Method has consistently done $1.91+ EPC despite our list having seen their offer many times. Will continue to promote! Thanks!”

“Mark and Derek's offers are among the highest converting in the business, and they also produce super high quality content ... they are amazing to deal with and very open about helping their affiliates do better. Highly recommended!